Don’t know much about Mireille, a girl in my year 7 Creative
Writing class, but thirteen years ago, someone thought to give her a pretty
name. Her mother, perhaps. Her mother who now, for whatever reason,
lives on the other side of the country.
Mireille is short, physically mature and overweight. Her permed bleached blonde hair hangs kinkily
around her face and shoulders. There’s a
darker row at the parting where the roots are growing out. Her facial features are regular, and could be
considered attractive, if you catch her at the right time. When she’s not sneering at you.
Mireille is at that point in the discipline handbooks where
the ‘goal of her behaviour’ is revenge.
Which translates into doing whatever the hell she wants.
That’s partly why she called me the c word today. (Weird.
I can’t even bring myself to type it here, although I typed it out in
the obligatory discipline report.) She
said it under her breath, but I heard, and I couldn’t let that one go. Now she’s on a two day suspension. Dad’s been advised to find her another school
because she’s just this side of expulsion.
Very serious. Not my fault that
she’s now at the expulsion stage. Swearing
at me was just the last straw.
Mireille arrived late to class, ‘announcing’ herself by
wearing a livid red cardigan, against the strict uniform rules of the school.
‘But it’s co-old!’ she declaimed, for the benefit of the
other twenty-four students, when I asked her to remove it. School rules require a note, or a detention
for uniform transgressions. ‘I didn’t
have anything else to we-ar.’ A loud
affronted whine. ‘I stayed at my friend’s last night, orright!’
It wasn’t cold, but I didn’t want to have that centre stage
fight over something I didn’t really care about. I decided to let it go and didn’t issue a
detention. She wouldn’t have cared
anyway and probably already had one with a different teacher.
Mireille is fearless, confrontational and powerful. She has no respect for my teaching
status. ‘I hate all teachers,’ she
brags. It's as if she has no decent, ‘better’
nature to appeal to. I’ve goaded her
into working occasionally but it’s been a waste of time praising or encouraging
her. She wants to be bad; she thrives on
disrupting.
Once she wrote a terrific piece. She’s a natural. Surprisingly neat – beautiful, careful
handwriting, each paragraph in a different colour pen. Error free.
She’d nailed the writing task, albeit in an abbreviated way. Of course, eager to encourage her, I was like
a seagull on a chip. Great writing; terrific details, I wrote
on her work. Can’t wait to read what
happens next!
‘Nothing happens. It’s
finished. Why should I bother writing
more? I know how to write already. I’m really clever.’ This is yelled in my face, in response to my
exhortations that she should keep writing because she’s good at it. And watching her while she wrote it, it was
obvious that she enjoyed writing.
‘I don’t want to learn.
Why would I want to be a goody-goody like them?’ She waves a hand
towards a row of neat, enthusiastic, well-behaved students. ‘It’s more fun being bad.’ She’s unafraid of
offending them, or anyone
Once she turned up to school with her school skirt hitched
up under her large breasts, her school shirt splayed open and knotted at the
midriff to showcase her black lace bra.
Like a hooker, really.
It hasn’t been terrible having Mireille in my class. Just avoid cornering her; avoid the fight,
which she’d inevitably win because she’s no holds barred, like many students
these days.
But yesterday, this late in the year, I was under pressure
to get the students to complete their ‘Individual Learning Plans’; to reflect
on their personal learning goals – what a joke, but that’s another story. The kids were a bit loud and unfocused as I
moved around the room trying to get the job done.
‘I haven’t got any goals.’ Mireille was loud and
ostentatious, boldly defying the task, summoning her audience. Again I decided it wasn’t worth it. The ILPs are a crock anyway. So what if she doesn’t have one in her
report? Move on. There were books she could read but she was
happily drawing love hearts and silly pictures with a felt pen. As long as she wasn’t drawing on the desk I
was happy to let it slide. Twenty-four
other students needed my attention, including several other ‘discipline
problems’.
Towards the end of the 75 minute period, Mireille was
flagrantly breaking rules. Sharing
headphones with another student, she was doing some exaggerated dancing
motions, hands in the air, fingers twirling.
Treating me like a fool.
Challenging. I walked up behind
her and her hapless, half-asleep side-kick and plucked the headphones out of
their ears.
Mireille, outraged, turned in her seat. ‘You have no right to touch my property! If you’ve broken them, I’m suing you!’ This was screamed at me.
‘Hand over the phone, Mireille.’ My voice was calm, assertive.
‘It’s not a phone. It’s
an ipod.’ One to Mireille, but stand back, for I am an
expert in the ‘broken record’ technique.
(Thanks, Lee Kantor.)
‘I hear what you’re saying, but hand it over.’
‘No, it’s brand new, you can’t take it.’ She’d zipped it into her uniform pocket.
‘Okay, it’s new, but hand it over.’ Reluctantly she surrendered it. Feeling pleased that she responded to my third
request, I put the device in my office drawer.
She was furious and let fly with the c bomb.
If only she’d called me a bitch. Could have let that one go through. Hate my part in this sorry mess which seems so pathetic written down, twenty-four hours later.
4 comments:
Hugs to you. Remember - It is not your fault.
Thanks, Nenifoofer. A few staff have thanked me for 'getting rid of her'. As if. Interestingly, I 'invigilated' the class from which she was removed during their exam today. They were surprisingly well-behaved. Wonder if there's any connection. Hmm.
Cheers. Fraudster
Nah it does't sound pathetic at all. It sounds like if it wasn't you it'd be someone else. It sounds like something you just shouldn't have to deal with. Why should your level of patience have to be so high as to continually ignore that kind of behaviour for the entire lesson.
We've all had students like that. And we can't help but try to encourage them, sort of like hitting our head against the wall, until we finally realize that there will be no getting through to them and they'll behave as they want because they have greater, and longer standing issues, than we could possibly ever deal with in the classroom.
Hope you've managed to expunge the entire incident from your memory by now.
Stella xx
The good thing about rules is that they're very clear. You break one, you're busted. No gray areas. You did the right thing.
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